STORIES: Foundation for the Aids Monument, Los Angeles, USA

“Jaime was the only man I ever fell in love with. He was insanely beautiful, inside and out.”

Jaime Jesus Jimenez, 1963-1995
Story by Guy Berube

Listen to my story recorded here by The Aids Monument, Los Angeles, USA.

In collaboration with the Aids Memorial: https://www.instagram.com/theaidsmemorial/

https://aidsmonument.org/stories/pain/

 
 
 
WORLD AIDS Day 2020.
 
We, as survivors, have been given the task to keep, cherish & share the stories of those who did not survive.
As painful as that may be, it’s an honourable obligation, one that I am dedicated to.
 
I’d also like to announce that my personal memorial I wrote about my former lover Jaime Jimenez, has been chosen by the Foundation for The AIDS Monument (“FAM”), a non-profit which is building “Stories: The AIDS Monument” in West Hollywood, California.
 
STORIES: The AIDS Monument will memorialize the devastation of AIDS on our nation, and will honour the courage of activists, caregivers, and community leaders.
 
The Monument will be in West Hollywood Park, the most prominent public space in the City. It will be a work of art with global significance, and an iconic landmark for the City.
 
Thank you to the The AIDS Memorial for shining the light on my personal story.
Hug to Jaime’s sister Maria Jimenez. xx
It’s been 25 years & I think of him daily.
 
 
 
Find out more:
 
 
 
MY STORY:
 
Jaime Jesus Jimenez
(18 May 1963 – 27 Oct 1995).
 
That’s us in 1990 in a photo booth in the East Village, madly in love. I had just ‘landed’ in New York in ’89, illegally, & got a gig as bouncer & bar back @ The Bar in the East Village, New York. Jamie was the first to make a move on me. That fucken smile did it. That ride lasted 5 crazy years.
 
The stories are endless, but one I cannot erase, is bathing him at his weakest, in the last stages of his illness. That very moment, looking at each other, knowing this was it, I felt something shift in my chest. It was my heart literally aching.
 
Fuck I miss him”.
 
– Guy Berube, 2017
 
 

 

 
 
 

 

REMEMBER. CELEBRATE. EDUCATE.

 

ABOUT THE MONUMENT

We chose the name STORIES: The AIDS Monument because stories of people, and the organizations that were born during the height of the epidemic, are the heart of our Monument.

The Traces start with a very informal layout in the Celebrate and Educate section. As you move through the Traces in this section and toward the Remembrance section, the grid in which the Traces are located becomes more defined. This is a metaphor for what those affected by AIDS and HIV experienced in the 1980s and early 1990s.

The public didn’t really understand the disease, what caused it, how was it spread, how we were going to treat or cure it, how we were going to care for the sick, and when the fear, death and confusion were going to end. But as we fought for civil rights, as we organized, as we took care of the sick and educated people about prevention, as medical treatments became available, the disease became more manageable and understandable, and so the organization of the Traces into a grid reflects that greater clarity and feeling of community.

As you walk through the Traces in the Celebrate and Educate section, look up and you will notice that some Traces are engraved. 30 of the Traces have words engraved on them: words representing what people were feeling and experiencing, and representing the types of audio stories you can hear if you click on the Word Wall that appears on this website (on your mobile device if you are visiting the Monument). The words are placed in an irregular way throughout the Celebrate and Educate section of the Monument so that there is a process of discovery in finding the words.

 

The Monument offers a different experience depending on whether you visit during the day or at night. The location of the Monument near the restaurants, bars and shops of West Hollywood provides an opportunity for visitors from 6:00 a.m. until midnight.

At night-time, the lights at the top of Traces are illuminated, resembling the candlelight vigils that happened for years and years and gave marchers a sense of emotional relief and community during a very difficult time.

 

See Video: https://aidsmonument.org/library/a-journey-years-in-the-making/

 

 

“HEAR our STORIES” Attracts Award-Winning Talent

HEAR our STORIES, FAM’s new audio recordings project, in partnership with the hugely-popular and moving @TheAIDSMemorial on Instagram, features people telling stories in their own words, as well as actors and other celebrities such as Jim Parsons, Sterling K. Brown, Billy Porter, Sheryl Lee Ralph and Christopher Wheeldon (shown above, left to right) recording stories, about lost loved ones, survivors, activists, community leaders and caregivers.

FAM has collected over 30 HEAR Our STORIES recordings so far.  We plan to record 100 or more stories by the time the Monument opens, and will continue to produce audio recordings thereafter, building a robust library of important, emotional stories.

We are proud to announce that Emmy and Golden Globe winner Jim Parsons (“Big Bang Theory,” “The Normal Heart,” “Boys in the Band”) recorded a posting about Ryan White. Emmy and Golden Globe winner Sterling K. Brown (“This is Us,” “The People vs. O.J. Simpson”) will record a posting about MLB player Glenn Burke.

Emmy and Tony winner Billy Porter (“Pose,” “Kinky Boots”) will record a posting about about ‘the Queen of Disco’ Sylvester.  Tony-winner Sheryl Lee Ralph (“Dreamgirls,” “Moesha”) recorded a story about poet and performer Assotto Saint.  Tony-winning choreographer and stage director Christopher Wheeldon (“An American in Paris”) will record a posting about Rudolph Nureyev.

FAM has made requests to other notable actors.  We will let you know about further developments in subsequent newsletters.

 

 

VISIT

We look forward to seeing you at the Monument, where you can remember, reflect and hear stories of how HIV and AIDS affected people, families and communities in Los Angeles, the United States and all over the world. The Monument is scheduled to open to the public in late 2022.

 

 

 

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